What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 08:24
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
*** Random Questions ***
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
What should a young woman do to control sagging breasts?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
Family Relation Age Play
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Is anyone else losing complete respect for the US at this point?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
What methods do private investigators use to investigate someone in real life?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Do happily married husbands cheat?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
When was you wife swapping fantasy started?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
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46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
What is your best gay fantasy?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
What are some downsides to living in Newfoundland and Labrador (besides the weather)?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Have you experimented with bestiality?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Why does it matter so much to atheists that God doesn't exist?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
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(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
*** Questions About Me ***
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
52~ What are your hobbies?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Nothing too Serious
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Would you read them together?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
39~ What are your love languages?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
29- How superstitious are you?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Any that are a turn off?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
If yes, what?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Have you ever? Care to Share?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
If you win, what will you make them do?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
How old are you? Male or Female?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
The Ice Breaker Questions
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
What is your favorite position? Why?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Please share Did you stop?